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'My Deepest Condolences' Gift Box

When someone you love looses a loved one....

You want to give them a special gift.

Not just a gift that looks pretty but a gift that comforts them. A gift that helps them mourn their loss while also seeing the way forward.

  • Gift includes:

  • A hand picked sea shell 

  • Heartfelt survivor's letter 

  • Journal activty with prompts

  • Send a Gift

    Do you already have a gift & want to connect with others inspired by the activity?


    Share the gifts you uncovered!

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    See what gifts others have revealed from doing the journal activity!

    Read them >>

    If you're stuck in the process of grieving:

  • Book a Q&A call to see if a gift could help

  • Give yourself time, and be kind to yourself around the process you're in 

  • Ask for help 

  • It's normal to feel waves of grief come and go at different times 

  • Support yourself by connecting to others who are grieving 

  • Find ways to turn grief into a gift 

  • The passing of your loved-one is not a gift 

  • It may even still feel shocking or hurtful

  • Especially if it was sudden and/or tragic 

  • Carry on your deceased loved-ones' memory and message, in order to honor their life and help others  

  • There's meaning, transformation, and purpose in actively working with your grief  

  • Gina Mongiello 

    Relationship Clarity Coach 

    I've known lots of grief in this life, but none as great as my dad's suicide. The shock, sorrow, & pain left behind is greater than any other grief I've known.

    My Deepest Condolences Gift Box keeps my love for my dad alive in this world and flowing. 

    I hope this gift helps you and your loved ones.

    Send a Gift

    Here what Susie felt upon receiving her gift


    I received my Gift Box today and I must say that the very aroma wafting through the air gave me a sense of calm and well-being. 

    I have always wanted to journal my thoughts but I always felt so random, unsure how to begin.

    I have a lovely book and now I believe I can begin a'Journaling' Journey.

    The questions and activities posed in the little paper slip are designed to help us narrow down some of the reasons for our sense of loss and unfulfilled moments. Words not spoken and those we wish we never uttered.

    I am so grateful to Celia for recommending this gift and group to me. I am ready to share my stories and listen to others.

    Grief takes a different path for all of us. We must own it, face it and recognize that it doesn't control our lives as long as we embrace it with dignity.

    I look forward to a very enriching new chapter in my life. 


    -Susan H.

    Have You discovered a gift you'd like to share?

    Tell us about it!

    Once you've received your "My Deepest Condolences" Gift Box and completed your journal activity you're encouraged to share (if you'd like to), what came through for you in terms of 'gifts'. 

    Maybe you've decided to start an organization, be more kind to strangers, or travel around in an RV sharing stories about your loved-one. 

    There's no idea too big or small, too immediate or long-term. You never know who might read about your idea and want to help you bring it to fruition.  

    Please send the outcome of your journal activity to [email protected]

    With your permission, part or all of your write-up will be posted here on this webpage, either with your name, initials, or anonymously if you prefer.  

    Would You Like To...

    ...see what gifts came through for others?

    It can be fun and inspiring to read about the gifts that others revealed at the center of their grief. 

    Just be sure to stay out of comparison mode. 

    There are different stages of grief, different ideas, different articulation of deep inner understandings. 

    Without even knowing you, I can assure you the gift(s) you uncovered at the center of your grief, is of equal importance and value to this world as any other gift. 

    When a gift is revealed, authentically, you can rest assured it's part of your purpose. And no purpose, when authentic, is any less valuable than any other authentic purpose. 

    If you want to be sure you're getting the most out of your gift, that you're getting to the heart of your grief for your unique gift, book a call to see if session work is for you. 

    Hidden Gifts RevealeD

    Below you'll meet those who have done the journal activity in the "My Condolences Gift Box".

    What they share below, is the gift(s) that's been revealed through their journal process. 

    If you feel inspired by someone here and would like to connect with them, reach out to me via the contact info on the bottom of this page, and I'll connect you. 

      Gina M.

      I was delighted by all the good that came through the writing and the tears. Lots of tears. The gifts that were revealed as I processed my deep sadness around my dad's death are to help raise awareness around taking greater care of our elderly loved-ones, and the risks of suicide in the elderly. Also, to do what scares me, as long as it's beneficial. To be kind, or quiet. To speak often about my imperfections so others know how normal imperfections are. To help dads and daughters strengthen their bond. And to continue my work, more than ever, to help people live authentically in their relationships. I'm so grateful for the ten journal prompts and what doing them brought out. I miss my dad so much. And will keep my love for him alive in this world.

    Rave Reviews

    "Very cathartic and inspiring"

    Thank you for sending me your grief care package. Right away, the presentation of the pretty box was very inviting. It felt specially wrapped just for me. I love the simplicity, sweetness, and compassion that this made me feel. Meaning, there wasn’t a heaviness that can sometimes accompany a sympathy gift. I journaled my first question. Tears were flowing. Very cathartic and inspiring.

    Susan S.


    "I'm blown away"

    I just opened your incredibly thoughtful gift, and did the first exercise. From the packaging to the NJ shell, I am blown away by the level of kindness in the details. Thank you so very much!

    Eric B.


    "This is so unique"

    Got the sweet condolencesbox today. What a great idea Gina!!! I showed it to my husband too and he thought so as well! Often when I’m looking for something to send to a friend who has lost a loved one, I can’t find anything . This is so unique and would help a person as they process their grief!! I think you have a very marketable product! Loved the beautiful wrapped box too!!! Great idea Gina!!!!

    Debbie P.


    Guidance on the Journal Activity

    If you're having trouble getting started or keeping momentum, join our 1x month zoom class. It's complimentary for anyone who has a gift. 

    You'll be amazed at the gifts that reveal themselves in each class when you take your love for your deceased loved-one and weave it into a beautiful quilt. 

    Classes are a good fit if you:

    • Ruminate on thoughts that aren't helpful 

    • Want to explore inner and outer authentic communication around grief

    • Are curious about the gift that waits in the middle of your grief, special for you

    Learn more about classes

    Not Sure if a Gift will Help?

    It's understandable

    It'll help when you want to:

    • Learn more about what this relationship meant to you


    • Share something special with the world 

    • Explore how to use feelings as messengers 

    Have a Question?

    Book a Q&A call over Zoom

    KNOW SOMEONE WHO LOST A LOVED-ONE?

    Whether it's recent or years ago, if you know someone who lost a loved-one, send them a gift to help. 

    This is a gift that they can use repeatedly for more than one loss.  

    It could be the loss of a parent, spouse, child, sibling, or friend. 

    Whether close or estranged.

    Sometimes estranged relationships have the most surprising of gifts. And they often require just as much processing, and just as many gifts, as when the relationship was close.

    Send a Gift